It is very important to know why you husband wants to leave you, most of the time he is leaving you not because he does not love you, so many issues many cause him to leave so if you can fix those issues your man will coming back to you 100% guarantee. So it a good idea to know what is the cause of your separation if you really need your man.
Dr Umar Malkh has made a good research on the factors that causes separations in so many families leaving the kids to stay without both parents in their control. Therefore if you lost your man and you still want him back it is so important to you to follow these 15 steps that will help you to get your man back in a relationship with you.
- WHY DID HE LEAVE YOU
It is advised to find out what made your husband to leave you before forcing him to come back to you. By doing this you will have time to fix all the problems or know how to handle the situation that may led him to leave you again. If you get this chance it will be so much useful to you so that once your man comes back to you he will not have any reason to make him leave you again.
I have seen so many couples once they break up the woman will fight so much to get his husband back immediately but again it does not last simply because she did get time to know the cause of the separation. And it is proved that once you do not solve your problems in a relationship they will keep on coming back however the day you sit down and make effort on how to make your problems come to an end you can get through of them permanently.
- DO NOT OVER PLEAD ON HIM
The reality about this no one will be with you when he does not love you so he leaving you does not mean that he does not love you. He will also go throw the some way you will be feeling without him so you must not nag him for loving you back this will make you a desperate woman making him think that you cannot manage your life without him. It will make you lose valve to him and making free proud to you.
All what you have to do is to pretend that without him life is still the same however much you may be missing him but only you can make him understand that you love him when he also love you so without him your life is still moving on so well. He will make it appoint that he gets you back to his life every man needs a woman who can stand on her own. If you use this courage your man will never under valve you again
- CUT OUT COMMUNICATIONS WITH HIM
It is commonly used by wives to follow up their men a lot after separation they will so on social media following him and trying to over call him of which all these will make it worse to him wanting to get back to you. So if your husband has left you try your level best to limit your communications with him and if you have kids make it appoint that once you contact him let it be about kids and keep it so short only to pass the information to him.
Once you play it cool to not contacting him he will be so curious to find out why you so strong and he will be so un secure thinking that someone is taking you away from so this will make your man to come back to you in no time to prevent you from being taken away.
- DO NOT ASK FOR HIS FINANCE SUPPORT
Men have some stupid thinking that most of the woman won’t survive without them supporting them so they take this advantage to make you plead on them. If you have such kind of a husband try your best to show him that you don’t need his finance and even do not ask him for his kids support just be normal your man will look for you and asks you to get back to him and do not just agree on him in the first place. You need to make him change all you want him to do for you so this will help you to make your husband understand the real valve you hold to him.
- SEEK FOR ADVISES FROM PROFESSIONALS
At times some men are hard to break through so once you have tried so many alternatives and he seems not to care it is so much recommended to see a professional person who has experience in marriage problems. This will help you in that he will be able to tell you more about the issues that may bring out separation due to the number of problems he has solved from other couples so he will be of a very good advise
- KEEP IT SO PROFESSIONAL IN CASE YOU MEET UP
If you suggest to meet him for a talking or for any important issues, you must meet him in public and be so brief making him feels that you don’t have enough time to talk nonsense. He will be triggered to understand why you no longer have his time so he will be on you always to make you wanting him back in your life.
- NEVER ALLOW HIM TO HAVE SEX WITH YOU FOR FUN
In some cases men have a habit of leaving you and when he feels lonely he will come back to you pretending to miss you and sleep with you after he leave you again. This is a sign of being desperate do not allow it to happen to you make him understand that you not that cheap to him so he will focus on how to make you his woman again. But if you allow him to use you he will always do that thinking that you will get him back but instead it won’t happen.
- BUY YOURSELF EXPENSIVE CLOTHES
This is seen in so many separation men thinking that once he leaves you it will affect you a lot in that even buying good clothes maybe had for you he only things you will fed up day by day. It will shock him to see you keeping so smart after him leaving you. It will be a mind blow to him to see you so much attractive than before so this will create a very big desire for him to come back to you.
- MAKE UNNECESSARY TRAVELLING
You travelling will bring him missing you and wanting him to stop you but he won’t be having that power to stop you since he will feel that he has to know what ever is going on with you. He will start like he is concerned of you leaving the kids back in the sense he will only want to know what keeps you busy so he will fight to gain powers on you so that he will know your movement
- DO NOT ALLOW HIM TO CONTROL YOU AT ANY MOMENT
Once you man leaves you do not listen to him anymore, Just keep on doing what is right for you don’t leave him decide for you in anything. It will hurt him to see you so much independent all what he will do is to make you come back to his life. And once his back he will respect you so much knowing what you capable of.